Let your Parents make their own decisions. Listen to your parents preferences about what to take, or leave, room colors, and placement of possessions. Let them tell you how they want their new residence to look.

Treat your parents with tact and respect. Recognize that parting with possessions and familiar surroundings is emotionally dificult. Listen to their stories and accept gifts. This is an important step in letting go.

Be realistic about the time needed to sort and pack a home of 5, 10, 20 years. Avoid becoming critical or impatient. Remember the most important thing is to have your parents living where they are safe and comfortable. And to accomplish it with minimal disruption to your life.